We'll Let You In
on a secret...

you don’t need rescuing. Everything you need is already inside you.

Yes, we’re often told who we are is wrong, immoral, or, lately, even illegal! But that’s not true. You are not broken. There is nothing wrong with you that needs to be fixed. You are worthy. You are loveable. You belong. And when you know and believe this to be true- that’s hot AF.

But something is stopping you from being this amazing person we’re saying you are, right? We all have issues… baggage and trauma and drama. So let’s talk about that.

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OUR SERVICES

We want every LGBTQ+ person to know that you are ok. Shining a light on your innate health and well-being will transform your relationships with yourself and others, rippling out into the larger community. Together, we can make this world a more loving, compassionate, and inclusive place. This is the REAL Gay Agenda and we’d like to be your guides! We’re here to help you uncover your innate health and well-being.
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SELF

Sometimes our magical rainbow light extravaganza can get buried under mucky thinking that looks like anxiety, depression, fear, isolation, addiction, or trauma. We can help you to see that right now, at this moment, you. are. ok. And we can work together to look through your thinking to the fabulousness underneath. In the wise words of RuPaul Charles, “If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?”

PARTNERS

Are you struggling to find fulfillment and happiness as a single person? Having trouble communicating with your partner(s)? Feeling heart-broken or jaded after a difficult breakup? Once you see that you are ok regardless of external circumstances, any insecurities and misunderstandings appear as what they are, allowing room for real connection and love.

FAMILY

Many of us struggle to feel seen, understood, and accepted by our families. Rejection or attempts to change us by the people who are supposed to love us no matter what can be especially hurtful. We will show why you are always worthy and deserving of love, and help you decide if and how to interact with your family in healthy and rewarding ways.

FRIENDS

>Do you suffer from toxic friendships? Do you feel lonely and isolated, or have trouble making friends? When you are secure in yourself, people can’t help but be attracted to your amazing energy. Let us help you find the confidence to form real and lasting friendships with people who value you exactly as you are. 

COMMUNITY

When you play small, the world misses out on you. But when you stop hiding and stand in your truth, you are able to give back to the community and shine your light. The world needs you to be that big, queer-ass beacon that you are so that you can light the way for other lost queer souls.

About Us

Brooke Hastings (she/her)
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I’m a Certified Nurse Coach and a former paramedic. I love people, all kinds of people. Whether responding to 911 calls or working in the emergency department and operating room, I’ve served people throughout life’s most vulnerable moments. I consider it a gift and a privilege to connect with people in meaningful ways, and coaching is my favorite way to do that. I live and travel with my beautiful wife Bonnie and our dog Allie. I love ice cream, swimming, museums, and roller coasters.

Growing up queer in a very Catholic family and a conservative Midwest community, I suffered from severe anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideations. I believed I was sinful and broken, and didn’t understand why I felt so different from everyone else around me. These insecurities followed me into adulthood, until my wife introduced me to the Three Principles, changing my life forever. 

Through the principles of Mind, Thought, and Consciousness, I have found the peace and well-being that is present in us all, and always accessible despite our circumstances or past experiences. I would love the opportunity to help you find this same peace in your life.

We've been a couple for 16 years & married
for 14 years

Bonnie Pipa (she/her)
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I’m a Change Coach! It’s thrilling to support others in creating the change they’d like to see in the world. 

I have been mentored by and trained with Mark Howard, Ph.D. and Amy Johnson, Ph.D. as a transformational/Change Coach. If you’re looking for: peace of mind, better relationships, less stress and overwhelm, relief from anything else bringing you down (habits and anxiety, I’m looking at you), you’ve come to the right place. 

Together, we’ll explore how our collective human experience works and help you see beyond your psychology to who you really are. You’ll see things differently and have your own realizations that will change your life.

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work With Us

We provide coaching services online via Zoom and meet you where you are - literally and figuratively! Reach out and schedule a complimentary session.

One-On-One Coaching

We’ll start with a complimentary coaching session where we’ll get to know each other and learn what you’re up against. From there, we’ll see how we might be able to work together. Sessions are typically 60-75 minutes long and are held online via Zoom. Single sessions start at $100.

Relationship Coaching

We’ve seen a huge shift in our relationship through the inside-out understanding. We help other couples (LGBTQ+ and allies) have more loving, peaceful and fulfilling relationships. If a couple determines they are better apart, we help them navigate the transition. We also support individuals whose partners aren’t interested in working together – – That’s okay, change can happen through you!

Coaching Packages

Complimentary Session : $0
6 Sessions with email support : $550
12 Sessions with email support : $900

Custom packages are available upon request.

Sliding scale payment can be discussed upon request.

Nice Things People Say About us

Finally…something that works! After experiencing trauma, I sought out traditional counseling and it wasn’t helping. Within a few sessions with Bonnie, I feel a lot better! She helped me learn how to quiet my mind and look at things in a whole new light. I am so grateful to her and highly recommend her services!
Patti H.
I am so grateful to be working with Bonnie. She listens with her whole heart, and I always feel safe confiding in her. When I am experiencing heavy, difficult emotions, our conversations help me to be able to look in a different direction. Bonnie laughs and cries right along with me, and I feel lighter and more hopeful after talking to her. Bonnie also has a great sense of humor, and she has many of her own colorful and interesting life experiences to share. It was really easy to establish rapport and feel comfortable- even on Zoom. I can imagine the good that both Bonnie and Brooke will create in our world!
Karli, Michigan
When I come to Bonnie for coaching support I’m usually feeling anxious, confused and upset. After talking with her I feel calm, more confident, and clear. It’s like i was holding my breath and then i could breathe. I joked with her that it’s like she gives me a loving slap across the face! Not one that hurts, but one that wakes me up to my gifts and talents and innate wisdom. Bonnie is a great coach and I’d highly recommend working with her!
Kristina B.

Do you have a queery? Do you have a burning queerstion about coaching? Reach out and we’ll chat about it.

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